As someone who’s been married for only six years, I’m constantly looking to those that have been in the game a little longer for wisdom. I recently had the pleasure of talking to such a woman who shared details a love letter from her husband. As she spoke of the content, I could feel my eyes well up and my heart begin to race.
She didn’t call it a love letter. That’s my term. The content of her letter didn’t include any of the things that we often view as romantic. In fact, it was just a list. There was no “My Darling Jessica” and it’s wasn’t signed “All my love Joe”. It was just a list.
Those of you who know me won’t be surprised at all to hear that it was a list of all their personal financial information; where to find things, who to talk to and what to do when he was no longer there. In my opinion Joe’s list is a thoughtful and truly loving gesture that says, “I’m thinking of you and I want to take care of you even when I’m not here anymore.”
Love Letter
As someone who’s been married for only six years, I’m constantly looking to those that have been in the game a little longer for wisdom. I recently had the pleasure of talking to such a woman who shared details a love letter from her husband. As she spoke of the content, I could feel my eyes well up and my heart begin to race.
She didn’t call it a love letter. That’s my term. The content of her letter didn’t include any of the things that we often view as romantic. In fact, it was just a list. There was no “My Darling Jessica” and it’s wasn’t signed “All my love Joe”. It was just a list.
Those of you who know me won’t be surprised at all to hear that it was a list of all their personal financial information; where to find things, who to talk to and what to do when he was no longer there. In my opinion Joe’s list is a thoughtful and truly loving gesture that says, “I’m thinking of you and I want to take care of you even when I’m not here anymore.”
What’s more romantic than that?